There are countless times in my own personal life, where my own vulnerability got me into trouble. At times where all I wanted was genuine comfort & love, I met people who took advantage of my vulnerable state of mind. Those people in particular had narcissistic traits and I only realised this of course when… Continue reading Vulnerability & the dangers of predators
There are so many occasions from my own personal experience, where I have witnessed this type of amnesia. In most of these occasions, it was with a parent. Narcissistic selective amnesia is real and extremely damaging. If you have not heard of this before, then my latest youtube video below, will hopefully help. When you… Continue reading Narcissistic selective amnesia
In my latest youtube video, I discuss the relationship between narcissistic fathers and their sons. This was requested by some of my viewers.It is just as important to raise awareness about how damaging a narcissistic father can be towards their son. Thanks for watching! © All blog posts and images are owned by me and… Continue reading Narcissistic fathers & their sons
Awhile back, I wrote a blog post on my other site about the effects of narcissistic abuse and the different narcissistic mother types out there, according to respected psychotherapist Michelle Piper. You can find this blog post here: https://mychildwithin.wordpress.com/2016/03/24/narcissistic-mother-types/ After reading through Michelle’s website, I wanted to share the information she provides with my subscribers… Continue reading Narcissistic mother types
It is important to know the steps of what to expect after realising your parents are abusive. It is crucial to finally understand why and how you were & are affected by narcissistic abuse. Giving what you have been through a name, is the beginning of your healing journey. It allows for validation of your… Continue reading New youtube video-I have discovered my parents are narcissists.What now?
In healthy parenting, the following things are needed to bring up a healthy & emotionally stable child. Love and affection. “You support and accept the child, are physically affectionate, and spend quality one-on-one time together.” Stress Management. “You take steps to reduce stress for yourself and your child, practice relaxation techniques, and promote positive interpretations… Continue reading What healthy parenting looks like versus narcissistic parenting
When you have grown up in a dysfunctional narcissistic home, taking on others’ emotions becomes the norm. Narcissistic parents teach their children to cater to their feelings & moods and the child learns to ignore their own emotions. A great book which can help you understand whether you have weak emotional boundaries, is by Charles… Continue reading Taking on others’ emotions-Having weak boundaries